This week on Love School for Nerds, Jay Jackson-Rao of The Nerdpocalypse and Abiola discuss a letter from a woman on whether or not an interaction she is having with a man should be considered a booty call. She always believes she is getting mixed signals from this man. Listen in to find out what we have to say about this…

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Dear Abiola and Jay,

I’ve been hooking up with this guy almost every night for the past 2 weeks and I’m not sure if it’s just a booty call. He usually stays the night, he’s asked me to come hang out with him at his friends house, and now he’s invited me to spend the day with him one day next week.

But when I confronted him and asked if he was trying to date me, he said no with some random excuse behind it. “No. I’m still getting over my last relationship 2 years ago” so I’m getting mixed signs and don’t know what to think.

Signed,
Booty Call?

 

Here’s our answer Listen!

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