This week Jay Jackson-Rao of The Nerdpocalypse and Abiola advise a woman who feels betrayed because her best friend is dating her former boss. To add insult to injury, the woman was fired by that same boss. Should she feel betrayed by her best friend for dating this person? Subscribe to the Love School for Nerds Podcast on iTunes.

Getting fired and dating

Dear Abiola and Jay,

I have a question…my best friend has started dating the person that fired me from my job…I see this as a betrayal to me because its being thrown into my face every single time I see this person…is this a betrayal to me?



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