Giving birth involves yin and yang energy and so does manifestation. Let’s talk about how to combine these divine powers for deliberate creation.

It is Day 3 of the Law of Attraction Challenge.
Day 1 was “What Do You Want?”
Day 2 was “How Do You Want to Feel?”

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Hey Goddess!

The Law of Attraction Challenge continues today.

Join us and manifest something amazing! 

Every manifestation and deliberate cocreation begins with the question, “what do you want?”


“What do you want?” is very direct yang energy question.

But like birth, manifesting is a process that requires both yin and yang energy.


Why do you want it and how do you want to feel are very yin energy inquiries.


Yes, sure you want this thing — money, love, health, etc — but how do you want to feel?

Obviously you want what you want because you think that it will make you feel a certain way.

Suppose you want to manifest yourself being at the Goddess of Paris! Miracles and Manifestation Retreat, like several of the women in my Facebook Group who are taking the Law of Attraction Challenge.

Yes! You want to change your life with a powerful group in a castle in France, opening your sacral chakra with burlesque and cabaret dance, creating your own perfumes and working with a sound healer.​​

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But let’s come into alignment with this DESIRE.

SO again — how do you want to feel?

Now, you may be thinking — duh, this is obvious, Abiola!

I want to feel good. I want to feel happy.

That is just the tip of the iceberg.

Your desire is a force multiplier.

How you want to feel is the heat under your desires, like the fire under a french hot air balloon! Yes, I am trying to get that for us, too.)

Let’s talk about how to use this YIN energy question to manifest what you want, what you really really want. 

Abraham Hicks calls this feeling your way up the emotional guidance scale in Ask and It is Given.

Danielle Laporte calls this your Core Desired Feelings in the Desire Map.

The more descriptive you can be about how you want to feel, to more you can just tap in and tune into becoming aligned with the vibration of that feeling.

Feeling good for the sake of feeling good — with a bonus of manifesting what you really want.

So to help you with how you want to feel, here are some Core Desired Feelings from Danielle’s site, plus a few I added as well:

  • Electric
  • Free
  • Sacred
  • Magical
  • Lit
  • Turned On
  • Passionate
  • Giddy
  • Blissful
  • Orgasmic
  • Devotion
  • Golden
  • Wildhearted
  • Creative
  • Lighthearted
  • Seen
  • Radiant
  • Brave
  • Nourished
  • Divine
  • Rich
  • Silly
  • Grace
  • Connected
  • Authentic


Pick the words that resonate with what you want to manifest — and we will continue the law of attaction challenge tomorrow… 

Let’s talk about it in the Facebook Group.

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