Sacred-Bombshell-Handbook of Self-Love [Photos by Liz Nikols]   The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love is your wake-up call to stop being just a survivor. You deserve to thrive. Consider this a vision quest to the center of yourself. ESSENCE advice columnist, motivational speaker and Love-Body-Spirit™ coach Abiola Abrams reveals the “11 Forbidden Secrets” to activate your feminine power. Why is it that a woman living in her joy is seen as suspicious? Abiola reclaims the word “bombshell” to mean a woman who embodies her power in mind, body and spirit, takes ownership of her life and relishes the journey.