Self-Worth Advice Columnist

Lifestyle Expert Abiola Abrams

Our Grandmas Had 'Dear Abby.' 

We Have 'Dear Abiola!'

Award-Winning Author & Columnist, Life Coach, TV Personality, Speaker

“Multimedia lifestyle maven Abiola Abrams is a one-woman inspirational show that has taken the web and beyond by storm.”

– Black Enterprise

Hi, I’m Abiola,

Let’s live the passionate life!

I’m a lifestyle expert, transformational speaker and empowerment coach, well-known as the ESSENCE Magazine love advice columnist of the popular “Dear Abiola” Intimacy Intervention column.

You’ve seen me giving advice on networks from MTV to the Discovery Channel, on sites from to Yahoo, on my award-winning podcasts and web series, and on stages around the country. 

My Love Philosophy Begins with Self-Love

You deserve to have better relationships with your significant other, your business, and your Sacred Bombshell self.

I’ve reclaimed the word “bombshell” to mean a woman who loves, honors, and cherishes herself in mind, body, and spirit.

Abiola has worked her magic as:

  • *A featured Love and Lifestyle Advice Columnist on sites such as the Huffington Post, Essence, Yahoo Shine, Madame Noire and plus online dating sites like
  • *An empowerment speaker at universities and conferences such as “NYC Women’s Empowerment Summit,” “Single In Stilettos,” “Good Vibrations Summit,” National Action Network, and “Flatbush AIDS Day“; Host of live shows like “The Reel Sisters of the Diaspora Film Festival.”
  • *Creative Director & Editor of this award-winning lifestyle site and Host /Producer of her award-winning lifestyle web talk show and advice vlogs;
    Featured expert on relationships, self-esteem and lifestyle in documentaries.
  • *A BBC Radio Entertainment Correspondent speaking about love and life;
  • *Over 2 million advice “clients” served with 2,000,000+ views on her YouTube Advice Channel;
  • *PLUS she was named one of the “Top 10 Women Teaching About Sex” by Clutch Magazine, “Top 20 Black Bloggers” by Black Enterprise Magazine, chosen “Dating Expert to Know” by and named a “Top 10 Safe Sex Blog” by Get Tested.

We’re taking self-love to self-launch. 

Become the woman you were born to be.

Sacred Bombshell (noun): a goddess who loves, honors, and cherishes herself in  mind, body, and spirit.

Award-Winning Author

“I enrolled in Abiola Abrams’ Spiritpreneur Mastercourse and we were powerfully moved with excitement each week. By the 4th week, I found the quality of knowledge required to trademark my own system. All of this and more was gained in the Sacred Bombshell laboratory!”
– Akua Kariamu, Creatrix
“What can I say about the amazing Abiola Abrams?! I have learned so much while working with her; not only from a business perspective. I’ve also gained a business friend that is in the same tribe! Abiola has provided me with the tools to look within in order to run a successful business. The tools that she provided are all heart-centered given with a firm approach. Her spiritpreneur advice and savvy is easy to follow and understand. I am a life-long client!”
– Shawntell T’Neke, The Sensualista, CEO & founder of Sensually Hers Evolved
“Working with Abiola was a Godsend! She helped me manifest what I had been visualizing. This was not an easy feat considering that I could not even find the words to properly articulate my vision. She was patient, knowledgeable and able to tap into my faith in a way that inspired confidence and action. Abiola helped the ministry of my coaching practice evolve into all I desired and more. She is a blessing for anyone that chooses her as their guide.”
– Renair Amin, Master Certified Coach, Holoklerian Specialist and Author
“Abiola knows the power of influence and how to inspire. She has the natural ability and magnetism to make each and every woman feel absolutely amazing and confident enough to draw out her own Bombshell Diva. She is not only beautiful inside and out, she has an amazing positive upbeat energy and is truly a goddess in her own right. Abiola’s essence can be summed up in four words: beautiful, goddess, positive and energy.”
– Suzanne Oshima, Matchmaker and Founder of Single in Stilettos
“Abiola’s non-judgmental coaching approach allows her to sincerely listen and give empowering and insightful feedback. Abiola is accepting of all people. She speaks to the Queen that we each have inside of us. Abiola is someone I am very blessed to know and work with.”
– Emerald Lavender, Founder, Pink Balloons for Lunch
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