In my recent appearance on the Leading with Spirit podcast, https://holtonhealingarts.com/podcast-leading-with-spirit/, I had the honor of sharing my journey and teachings as an author, spiritual teacher, and founder of the Goddess of Manifesting Retreat. My path to self-love and ancestral wisdom has been deeply transformative, offering lessons in resilience, empowerment, and connection to the sacred.
Here, I’ll share some key insights from our conversation about self-love, manifestation, and tapping into African Goddess energy.
Finding Self-Love After Loss
My journey took a profound turn following a painful divorce. What initially felt like an end became an unexpected beginning—a catalyst for growth. Through that experience, I discovered that true self-love requires embracing oneself unconditionally. In my healing, I integrated ancestral practices and African Goddess wisdom, which now form the foundation of my life and work. As I shared on the podcast, “If you’re still breathing, you’re still evolving.” Self-love and healing are ongoing journeys, and each step deepens our connection to ourselves.
Practicing Self-Love Authentically
For me, self-love begins with radical self-acceptance. It’s about committing to fully embrace who you are right now, without the immediate need to change. When we ground ourselves in this acceptance, we create space for a life that aligns with our authentic selves—a life that honors our truth and our essence.
Self-Worth Through African Goddess Energy
One of my greatest sources of strength is African Goddess energy. It offers a wellspring of resilience and self-worth. This ancestral wisdom reminds us that we all hold a sacred, unshakable worth within us. By honoring our inner voices and cultivating personal rituals, we can nourish our self-worth and find the confidence to face life’s challenges with grace.
Manifesting Dreams with Courage and Gratitude
When it comes to manifestation, my approach is rooted in courage and gratitude. Manifestation begins with honoring what we already have and giving thanks for it. From that place of gratitude, we can dream bigger and bolder. This balance—of appreciating the present while reaching for the future—fuels growth and abundance, allowing us to live a fulfilling and ambitious life.
Through my work, I strive to empower others to embrace self-love, rootedness, and resilience. When we honor our self-worth and cultivate courage, we align with our deepest desires and manifest the life we are meant to live.
To hear more about my journey and insights, listen to the full episode on Leading with Spirit [Episode #95]: Journey to Self-Love: Lessons from Loss, Growth, and Goddess Energy with Abiola Abrams.
