In a flurry of spring cleaning I ended up with a hallway of fab clothes, bags and shoes. Feeling rather proud of this major purge I allowed my friends and sister to sift through. It was fun until one of my best friends said “Oh no Abiola. These are my favorite shoes. I lent you these!!!”

She was referring to a pair of gorgeous but uncomfortable platforms that I couldn’t remember buying. She was devastated.

What else could I say besides…